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I Had An Abortion: Jessy Rosales on Refusing to Carry Other People's Shame

August 28, 20253 min read
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In a profound and inspiring conversation with Dr Connie Kerali, activist Jessy Rosales opens up about their journey from personal struggles with reproductive issues to becoming a passionate advocate for reproductive justice. Jessy’s story is one of resilience, empowerment, and the transformative power of community and self-discovery.

 

The Road to Advocacy

Jessy Rosales’s advocacy journey began in 2016. As a queer Latinx activist, they were driven by personal and familial experiences to engage deeply in community organizing for reproductive justice. Their early life as the eldest daughter of immigrant parents in America taught them about responsibility and navigating dual cultural expectations. These lessons laid the groundwork for the pivotal roles they would take on in their advocacy career.

 

Jessy's impactful work has included passing landmark legislation, such as Senate Bill 24, which mandates that universities in California offer medication abortion services. Their endeavours have been recognized by prestigious bodies, emphasizing their role as a leader in the field.

 

Finding Their Voice Through Experience

For Jessy, the journey to self-acceptance wasn’t straightforward. In her early years, questions about their sexual identity were confusing due to societal and familial pressures. It wasn’t until their twenties that Jessy fully embraced their queerness. This personal journey of self-discovery and acceptance of their own identity has been intertwined with their advocacy work.

 

An unexpected pregnancy during their undergraduate years became a turning point. Despite the hurdles they faced, navigating healthcare systems, dealing with stigmas, and managing personal shame, Jessy transformed these challenges into opportunities for advocacy, ultimately contributing to significant policy changes.

 

Empathy and Empowerment

Through platforms like We Testify, Jessy has connected with others who share similar experiences, building a supportive community where abortion stories are told without stigma. This network provides a space of refuge and strength, enabling these narratives to catalyse change and empathy in broader society.

 

In discussing their journey, Jessy reflects on the importance of listening to one’s own feelings and rejecting the shame imposed by others. Their insights are a call to action for those facing similar struggles: honour your own expertise, and do not absorb external shame.

 

A Message of Hope

Jessy Rosales’s story is a beacon of hope for anyone dealing with similar experiences of shame or stigma. Their journey emphasizes the importance of empathy, community support, and advocacy as tools for personal and social transformation.

 

For those who feel isolated or ashamed, Jessy's message is clear: there is power in shared stories and collective action. Destroying the stigma surrounding reproductive health and embracing one’s own narrative are crucial steps toward personal liberation and societal change.

 

Discover More

For more inspiring stories like Jessy Rosales’ or to join a community that empowers reproductive justice, follow We Testify on Instagram or visit their website. Sharing these stories helps move public perception and policy toward a more just and inclusive future for all.

 

Jessy's narrative is a reminder of the power of personal storytelling in advocacy. By embracing their unique experiences, others can find strength in vulnerability and community, transforming shame into a powerful force for change.

 

UK Based Support Services

·      British Pregnancy Advisory Service (BPAS)

·      National Health Service (NHS) Abortion Support

 

 

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Your Journey Begins Here

If you or someone you know is grappling with similar experiences, know that you are not alone. Speak up, seek help, and embrace vulnerability as the beginning of your healing journey. Whether through trusted friends, professionals, or community resources, finding someone you can confide in can be life changing. I know this to be true firsthand.

 

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Dr Connie Kerali is a medical doctor with over 15 years of experience, an empowerment coach & clinical hypnotherapist, and a survivor of rape.

Dr Connie Kerali

Dr Connie Kerali is a medical doctor with over 15 years of experience, an empowerment coach & clinical hypnotherapist, and a survivor of rape.

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