In a candid conversation with Dr Connie Kerali on this week's episode of Speak Shame, Emily Silva Hockstra, a remarkable author and spiritual life coach, unveils her poignant journey through infertility, grief, and healing. With five published books and a mission to cultivate inner peace amidst life's uncertainties, Emily stands as a beacon of strength and resilience.

The Beginning of Emily's Story

Emily's journey starts as a young girl with a passion for writing, her nose always in a book. After suffering a miscarriage aged 18, she initially buried herself in work, pursuing a career in banking and later the international wine industry. However, it was a deep inner calling to write that led her to transform her path radically.

From Grief to Gratitude

Emily’s journey to becoming a five-time author wasn’t overnight. Her first book, Moonlight Gratitude, was conceived during her spiritual journey of overcoming anxiety and was followed by others, including the impactful, Sunset Gratitude. This book emerges from her own grief, spurred by the diagnosis of primary ovarian insufficiency in 2020, making her navigate a profound journey of infertility grief and healing from past traumas.

Navigating Through Grief and Isolation

The unexpected diagnosis plunged Emily into a grief she describes as overwhelming and isolating. Therapy became her anchor. Alongside couples therapy with her husband, yoga training and energy healing became channels through which she reconnected with her body and found solace. Through these avenues, Emily learned vulnerability, self-acceptance, and the significance of speaking truthfully to herself - a catalyst for genuine healing.

Evolving Through Experience

Emily's authenticity transformed her coaching style. Initially focused on career transitions, her approach shifted to guiding others in finding their true selves amidst life's chaos. By fully embracing her experiences, Emily fosters a nurturing environment for others, helping them uncover their true paths beyond grief.

A Message of Hope and Support

Emily’s story is an inspiring testament that even in periods of darkness and grief, no one is truly alone. She emphasises the importance of seeking help and the invaluable role of therapy in navigating through grief and shame. Her hope is that listeners find solace in the shared human experience and seek the support needed to come home to themselves.

Connect with Emily Silva Hockstra

For those inspired by Emily’s journey, she is available through her website, SoulsAdventures.com, where she continues to share her insights and life experiences. You can also connect with her on Instagram @SoulsAdventures for more inspirational content.

A Remarkable Woman in Emily's Life

To end the enriching dialogue, Dr Connie asked Emily about a remarkable woman who inspired her. Emily honours her great-grandmother, Natalia, who, as a single mother in El Salvador, courageously nurtured a lineage of creatives, inspiring Emily’s path as a writer.

Emily Silva Hockstra's journey is a profound reminder of the power found in vulnerability. Her narrative is a comforting beacon for anyone navigating grief, assuring them that they are never truly alone in their struggles.

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Your Journey Begins Here

If you or someone you know is grappling with similar experiences, know that you are not alone. Speak up, seek help, and embrace vulnerability as the beginning of your healing journey. Whether through trusted friends, professionals, or community resources, finding someone you can confide in can be life changing. I know this to be true firsthand.

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